This is probably a big question on many mens’ minds: do you measure up?
A lot of men are asking this question because of the influences of society and the pressure from women and others they are in relationships with.
In this day and age of the talk show hosts and pundits who know it all, everyone has an opinion of whether mens’ penises are big enough or not.
Let’s take a look at some of the confusion and try to make sense of it.
What women think
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, says that famous book which did so much (or so much damage according to some) to the relationship between the genders.
Some people believe that women want only huge penises and that the ones who don’t are lying. In reality then, for these women, penis size is the most important thing in a relationship. Penis size seems to be the deal breaker.
But then there are also women who believe this goes a little too far and you can in fact have a perfectly good relationship even if it’s a bit deficient in the “sexual” department.
Do you measure up, according to males
Now of course the male response is as simple as possible: of course it’s important! “Do you measure up” is probably the most important thing to worry about in a relationship.
Men want to feel not only useful, but also have the ability to please and to be the perfect partner for their ladies.
It’s all related
Do you measure up, is related to many different things as well in the lives of men. Men want to achieve certain “levels” in a variety of things, but we can divide them roughly into three categories: sexual, physical and intellectual.
All three of these parts of life seem to be important for men who are looking for a long term relationship and they are all related to the question of whether you measure up or not.
- Sexual relationships — Men are looking to be able to please their partners and have a good sexual relationship. Having a really big penis is an important part of this. They want to be able to fully satisfy and impress their partners.
- Physical prowess — It’s also important for men to be physically fit and strong. Being physically fit and strong will mean that you have more muscle mass in your body instead of fatty tissue. Ultimately, this will mean that your body is creating more testosterone, which increases your ability to maintain longer and harder erections.
- Intellectual wisdom — Intelligence is also another important part of being a man. If you want to start a family, you will be responsible for them financially and you will need to know how to use your brain to be able to make money for your family and not make any bad financial decisions.
All of these three metrics can be used to answer the question: “Do you measure up?” when it comes to men. All three of these ways can be used to determine whether this particular man is going to be a good leader of a family and head of the household.
What can you do if you don’t measure up?
If you don’t measure up and if your penis is not as big as you would like it to be, then there are several ways to help you.
There is of course surgery, but most people recommend avoiding this method because it can be painful and also have consequences which you may not have intended.
An alternative to surgery is to go for hormone treatment or some other form of less invasive medical procedure that may not have physical side effects, but in the long term hasn’t been tested enough to be 100% certain.
Perhaps the safest and most natural way if you are struggling with the question do you measure up is to use alternative medicines and supplements based on herbal remedies. These tried and tested methods have been used for thousands of years.
Additionally, there are also exercises and devices that are perfectly safe that you can use to increase the size of your penis and even change its shape.